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4 Ways to Survive Mother’s Day Grief

  Every May, a holiday comes around that is filled with food, flowers and love. At least that’s how the media portrays Mother’s Day. This may have been true for you at one time or another. However, it’s wise to acknowledge that there are more than a few...

Meeting your child’s emotional needs

  Babies aren’t born to name or identify their emotions. However, they do feel their emotions. What is the cause of their crying? There are pain cries, hunger cries, dirty diaper cries, and ‘I need you’ cries. Parents generally learn to read what their baby needs and...

Parenting is Hard

Parenting is hard. Very hard. Many tell me of their guilt for feeling angry, or for taking a minute to themselves so they can mentally re-group. Their mind immediately goes to “I am a bad parent”. A large part of what makes parents doubt themselves is all of our...

Understanding Postpartum Mental Health Needs

Many women suffer from depression and/or anxiety and often feel shame. Understanding postpartum mental health needs can create hope during the postpartum period.  Be grateful for your healthy baby In general, our society believes this postpartum period is and should...

EMDR Intensives?

What they are and how they can help EMDR Intensives have been shown to help people process in a shorter amount of time. Some therapists solely do intensives vs. single sessions. These therapists all report faster processing. Processing happens faster because there is...

The Lump in Sherry’s Throat & The Cord of Love

Sherry is a friend from childhood who grew up with little to no childhood trauma. She lived in a small mid-western town in the 60’s. Her father was the breadwinner and her mother stayed at home with Sherry and her older brother. She played in the neighborhood without...

Dump the Resolutions!

DUMP THE RESOLUTIONS!  Happy 2024! Of course with these words generally comes the question, “What are your resolutions?” However, statistics show that 23% give up on their resolutions within the first week, 35% do not keep their resolutions over a month, and only 9%...

Ways to Calm a Racing Mind

If I had to choose just one thing that almost every client reports, it would be about their racing mind. They have recognized it and recognized how unhelpful it is. Let’s face it, there are so many negative things happening in our world. All we have to do is allow...

5 ways to have peaceful holidays

  Have you ever regretted spending time with your extended family for the holidays? Some people look forward to spending time with their family. Others can predict how the visit will go. They have been down that road! Even for those who want to be with these...